“I Was Broken and Still Had to Stay Strong. I Cannot Be Weak”: Understanding Parental Role Conflicts Following a Premature Birth
“I Was Broken and Still Had to Stay Strong. I Cannot Be Weak”: Understanding Parental Role Conflicts Following a Premature Birth

“I Was Broken and Still Had to Stay Strong. I Cannot Be Weak”: Understanding Parental Role Conflicts Following a Premature Birth

Adv Neonatal Care. 2024 Dec 1;24(6):569-577. doi: 10.1097/ANC.0000000000001204. Epub 2024 Nov 26.

ABSTRACT

BACKGROUND: The challenging transition to parenthood affects both mothers and fathers; yet, the strain intensifies with a premature birth in the neonatal intensive care unit (NICU), underscoring the importance of acknowledging and addressing potential differences in parental roles.

PURPOSE: This paper aimed to investigate how parental role conflicts among mothers and fathers of preterm-born infants hospitalized in German NICUs manifest and investigated potential parental resources.

METHODS: Twenty-four participants, 17 mothers, and seven fathers of very low birth-weight infants were interviewed. A thematic content analysis was performed at a semantic level.

RESULTS: Fathers feel pressured to fulfill the role expectations, often leading to the suppression of paternal feelings and needs. For mothers, deviating from societal expectations regarding their expressive roles can be distressing, as they worry that such deviation might hinder their infants from having a successful start in life. Consulting with healthcare professionals shows to ease challenges for both parental roles.

IMPLICATIONS FOR PRACTICE AND RESEARCH: Maternal and paternal challenges are often rooted in expectations placed on their societal roles. Highlighting these challenges can be essential for increasing awareness and effectively addressing them. Tailored nursing practices may have the potential to facilitate individuals’ navigation of uncertainties and fulfillment of caregiving roles.

PMID:39602093 | DOI:10.1097/ANC.0000000000001204